Does Your Child Freeze in Class? Let’s Talk About Spoken English Features
Have you ever noticed something funny? Your child can tell you all about their favorite video game with tons of energy and excitement. But when they have to give a class presentation, they suddenly get quiet. Their voice might shake. They might forget what to say. This happens to lots of kids, and you know what? It’s totally normal. The way we talk every day is different from how we speak in school. When we chat with friends, we use “um” and “like” a lot of rhythm in our voice. We pause. We repeat things. These are all called spoken English features. They’re the special, natural ways we use our voice when we talk.
But here's the thing:
learning to control these Spoken English features can help your child feel more confident in class, do better on presentations, and even make new friends more easily.
In this guide, you’ll learn:
- What spoken English features are (with fun examples!)
- Why can they be tricky for students
- Easy activities you can do at home right now
- How a tutor can help your child feel more confident
- Why online tutoring works great for busy families
Let's dive in!
Spoken English Features?
Think of spoken features as the “superpowers” we use when we talk. They are the tools that make our voice interesting and easy to understand. When your child learns to control them, they become a more confident speaker! Here are the main ones:
Volume:
This is simply how loud or quiet you speak. You use a loud volume on a playground but a quiet volume in a library.
Tone:
This is the feeling in your voice. Your tone can be happy, sad, serious, or excited. It tells people how you feel about what you’re saying.
Pitch:
This is how high or low your voice is. Your voice might go up in pitch when you ask a question or get excited.
Pace:
This is how fast or slow you talk. Speaking too fast can be hard to follow, while speaking too slow might be boring. Finding a good pace is key!
Gestures:
These are the movements you make with your hands and body when you talk. Waving, pointing, or counting on your fingers are all gestures.
Expression:
This is the look on your face! A smile, a frown, or wide eyes can show your feelings even without words.
Clarity:
This means speaking your words clearly so everyone can understand them. It’s the opposite of mumbling.
Emphasis:
This is when you make certain words stand out to show they are important. For example, “I really want to go to the park!”
Learning to use these tools helps your child share their amazing ideas in a way that makes everyone want to listen
Spoken English features Feels Hard Sometimes
Writing English and spoken English are super different. When you write, you can stop, think, and fix mistakes. But when you speak? The words come out right away!
Here’s what makes speaking tricky for many kids:
Too many “ums” and “likes”:
When we’re nervous, we say “um… like… you know…” a lot. These are called filler words. They give our brains time to think, but too many can make it hard for people to follow along.
Silent pauses feel scary:
A few seconds of quiet while speaking can feel like forever! Kids worry that everyone is staring at them.
Talking too casually:
The way you chat with your best friend (“That game was so cool!”) is different from how teachers want you to speak in class (“The game demonstrated excellent problem-solving skills”).
Getting nervous:
Even really smart kids freeze up sometimes. We once worked with a student named Augusto. He was amazing at writing essays. But when he had to read them out loud in class? He’d get so nervous he could barely speak.
Here’s the good news:
spoken English features aren’t mistakes. Everyone uses them! The secret is learning when they’re okay and when to tone them down.
Easy Practice Ideas:
You don’t need to be a teacher to help your child get better at speaking. Here are some fun activities any family can do:
Record and Listen Back:
Grab your phone and hit record. Ask your child to explain something simple for one minute.
It could be:
- How to make their favorite sandwich
- Why do they love their pet
- The rules of a game they like
Then, play it back together. Don’t criticize! Just point out what you notice. Then try again and see if they can improve.
Practice Eye Contact When your child talks,
encourage them to look at you. Making eye contact makes you feel more confident and helps people listen better. If they’re shy, they can start by looking at your forehead or nose—it still feels like eye contact!
Play the “One Minute Challenge.”
Pick any topic (dinosaurs, pizza, summer vacation). Set a timer for one minute. Your child has to talk about that topic the whole time without stopping, repeating the same sentence, or saying “um” more than three times. Make it fun and take turns—parents can play too!
Turn Homework into a Conversation.
After your child finishes homework,
Ask: “Pretend I’m your friend who missed school today. Can you explain what you learned?” This helps them practice explaining ideas out loud in a friendly, clear way.
Try This 10-Minute Home Challenge!
Every evening before bed, try this quick activity:
Step 1 (2 minutes):
Pick one random object in your house. It could be a spoon, a backpack, or a pillow.
Step 2 (2 minutes):
Your child talks about that object. What does it look like? What’s it used for? Do they have a memory about it?
Step 3 (1 minute):
You repeat back one cool thing they said. Example: “I loved it when you said the spoon reminds you of ice cream!”
Step 4 (2 minutes):
Your child tries again. This time, they focus on speaking a little smoother and using fewer “ums.”
Step 5 (3 minutes):
Celebrate! High-five, and talk about what got better. Do this every day for just one week.
You’ll be amazed at how much your child improves!
How a Tutor Helps
Practice at home is awesome. But sometimes, kids need a little extra help from an expert. That’s where tutors come in.
At WebGrade Tutors, our teachers work one-on-one with students. Here’s what makes it special.
Instant, Kind Feedback:
Instead of just saying “good job,” tutors give specific tips. Things like: “Instead of saying ‘um,’ try taking a tiny breath. That pause is totally okay!”
Personalized Lessons:
Some kids are super shy and need to practice speaking in baby steps. Other kids talk a lot but need help organizing their ideas. Tutors create lessons that fit YOUR child.
Proven Results:
More than 70% of our students feel way more confident in just six weeks. That’s less than two months!
Real Success Story:
Layan was a Year 11 student in Australia. She hated giving presentations. Her hands would shake. Her voice would get quiet. But after working with her tutor for 8 weeks, she gave her Spoken English speech with a smile on her face. Her teacher said it was the best in the class!
Confidence doesn’t happen overnight. But with the right support, it grows.
Online Tutoring Work
We hear this question a lot: “Can online tutoring really work as well as meeting in person?”
The answer? Yes! Sometimes even better.
Here’s why online tutoring with WebGrade Tutors is perfect for families in the USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and Ireland.
Super Flexible:
Lessons fit around your schedule. Soccer practice, piano lessons, family dinner—we work around YOUR life.
No Driving:
Your child learns from home. No stress about traffic, parking, or rushing from place to place. Just log on and start learning!
Affordable:
Quality tutoring doesn’t have to break the bank. We offer competitive rates that work for real families.
Safe and Comfortable:
Some kids feel more relaxed at home. They open up more. They ask questions without worrying about other students watching.
Expert Tutors:
Our tutors are trained to teach both the school stuff AND build confidence. They know that a student who believes in themselves will always do better.
Spoken English skills aren’t just for school tests. They’re for life. Job interviews. Making friends. Standing up for what you believe in. When your child learns to speak with confidence now, it helps them forever.
Conclusion: Your Child's Voice Deserves to Be Strong
Spoken English features, those “ums,” pauses, and casual words, are totally normal. Everyone uses them! But with a little practice and the right guidance, your child can learn to control them. They can speak clearly, confidently, and proudly.
Imagine this:
Your child walks into their classroom next week. The teacher asks a question. Your child raises their hand. They speak up. Their voice is steady. Their ideas are clear. And you know what? Other kids listen.
That’s the power of strong English speaking skills.
You can start today. Try the activities in this guide. Make it fun. Celebrate small wins. And if your child needs extra help? That’s what we’re here for.
Ready to See Your Child’s Confidence Grow? Book a FREE trial lesson with WebGrade Tutors today, no pressure, no obligation. Let our expert tutors show you how personalized support can transform your child’s English speaking skills. Watch them light up as they discover their voice.
Frequently Asked Question?
Spoken English features are things like pauses (short silences), filler words (um, like, you know), repeating words, changing your voice tone, and using casual language. These are all normal when we talk!
Try recording them while they talk and playing it back. Once they hear how often they use filler words, they become more aware. Then practice speaking with short pauses instead. It takes time, but it works!
Because speaking English happens in real-time. There's no backspace button! When you write, you can stop, think, and fix mistakes. When you speak, the words come out right away. That's why practice is so important.
Make speaking practice fun! Try the one-minute challenge, record short talks, play speaking games at dinner, or just ask your child to explain their day in detail. The more they practice, the easier it gets.
Yes! Video-based tutoring lets students practice speaking in a safe, supportive space. Tutors give instant feedback and encouragement. Many students actually feel LESS nervous online because they're at home.
It's never too early or too late! Kids as young as 7 or 8 can start practicing simple speaking activities. Teenagers benefit hugely from focused practice before presentations and exams. Even adults can improve